New York Times Editors' Choice

 A Southern Living Best Book of 2018

An Amazon Editors' Top 100 Pick of 2018
An Amazon Best Memoir of 2018

 A Refinery29 Best Book of 2018

​A PopMatters Best Book of 2018

 A New York Post Most Unforgettable Book of 2018

A Finalist for the Utah Book Award

A ​Barnes & Noble Discover Great New Writers pick * ​iBooks Favorites: May * Refinery29 Best Books of May​A Patch Book You Need to Read in May * Mag the Weekly's Reads of the Week (Pakistan) * San Francisco Magazine Memoir to Read Right Now * ​​A New York Times "One of Ten New Books We Recommend This Week" * ​Publisher's Weekly Starred Review


Featured in:

The New York Times *Vogue * Southern Living * The New York Post *  WNYC * The BBC 

 Elle * Shondaland * ​Business Insider * Bookpage's 11 Women to Watch in 2018


<-- Look how cute I am in the U.K.



May, 2019: The paperback is here! It's so very soft and light and perfect for fanning yourself in the summer heat. Don't get heat rash! It's uncomfortable. Anyway. 

The folks at my wondrous local bookstore, Malaprop's, will send you a signed copy! I'll even draw you pictures or write your name or whatever makes you happy inside. 

Get it here